Allow me to say first that I was educated to be a teacher – BS Ag Edu, UP Los Baños, 1965, weighted average 2.36. I had been engaged in teaching high school students at the Asingan High School in my hometown Asingan, Pangasinan, and college students at UPLB Los Baños and Xavier University College of Agriculture, Cagayan De Oro. I passed the Civil Service exam for teachers at its first offering, in 1964: 80.6%. The next year, I was #2 with 90.5% in the qualifying exam for Pangasinan teachers, where #1 was 90.6% (female, from UP Diliman).
The above quote says completely (Facebook sharing Sunday, 24 March 2024, by Virginia Barraquio):
A good Education
begins at Home. You cannot blame a
school for not nurturing values in your child that you have not instilled.
I
teacher disagree!
I
say:
Teachers,
especially in the elementary, go to school to teach children how, among other
things, to behave. Parents are not necessarily taught how to
teach their children good manners and right conduct (GMRC), because their own
parents may not have learned GMRC themselves! (And no, the Catholic priest does
not require GMRC knowledge to marry people.) Among other things, it is the duty
of the teacher to teach the children GMRC!
Lei Sison says “Magic Words Like ‘Please’ and ‘Thank You' Must
Be Learned at Home, Say Education Professionals”
(2019, Smart Parenting, smartparenting.com.ph). “It's important to teach
kids good values even before they start schooling.”
Yes,
the parents must teach their children good manners like saying “Please” and
“Thank you,” but incidences to do so are few and limited. In contrast, from Grade
1 to Grade VII, there is much interaction among the children and teacher and,
therefore, the teacher is the most likely (liable) to teach GMRC!
From
Canada, ANN says (Author Not Named,
2019, LegalLine.ca, legalline.ca):
Ontario’s
Education Act is the main law that governs how public school education is
delivered. Section 0.1(2) of the Act states that “the purpose of education is
to provide students with the opportunity to realize their potential and develop
into highly skilled, knowledgeable, caring citizens who contribute to their
society.”
Read
again about the purpose of education – for children “to realize their
potential” and “to develop into … caring citizens.”
Don’t tell this citizen of the Philippines that the
teachers of Canada know more about the basics of educating the children than
teachers in my country!
Instead of the parents, the Grade teachers in any country
have more time spent with the children during regular days and, therefore, owe
more the young ones to teach them not only reading & writing &
arithmetic but GMRC!
Relevantly,
here is a 4-year old Philippine law about GMRC (Supreme
Court E-Library, elibrary.judiciary.gov.ph): Republic Act 11476, “An Act Institutionalizing Good Manners
And Right Conduct And Values Education In The K To 12 Curriculum, Appropriating
Funds Therefor, And For Other Purposes,” which was passed 25 June 2020.
Now
then, a good education begins in Grade School, not at Home!@517